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There is no specific amount of time or number of calls and visits. Visit as often as is comfortable for you both. My husband talks with my mom about every two weeks. He stops by her house on his way home after work and they usually visit for about an hour.

If your in-laws live locally, agree with your spouse to set a time limit to your visit (spend just a few hours together) to avoid any painfully long or uncomfortable visits. Where your in-laws stay (if they are coming for a long visit) can make all the difference between a pleasant and an unpleasant visit.

Anything over a week will be too exhausting and stressful for everyone — host and guest. It is best to minimize the disruption of everyone's lives." Although three days and two nights is the ideal visit, Hokemeyer admits that when guests are coming from a great distance, the stay may have to be extended.Sep 12, 2014

Your in laws shouldnt concern you especially if they pressure you. Stay away from them because they are harmful to you. And it is very okay for you not to visit them, they shouldnt even bother you.

You are perfectly justified in deciding to stay at a hotel if that's what you want to do. When you tell them that's what you want to do, it's best to have a good reason in case they get upset. If you're with your SO and/or children, it's probably a given that a hotel stay is better for everyone.

Should in-laws call before visiting? - Quora. Yes, and so should everyone else. It's rude, inconsiderate, and disrespectful to just show up unannounced at someone else's home and expect them to drop whatever they may be doing so they can entertain you.

Now staying with in laws is not a bad thing if you understand each other well. But if your new family already assumes that you should be subjugated and that your voice means nothing, then surely you are headed for doom.Sep 16, 2019